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What do you mean by Kinky ?
- Call me Mistress. In my professional and personal life, I am a passionate and increasingly skilled Kink Educator and Pleasure Coach. For clients and playmates alike, I demonstrate powerful & tantalizing techniques which facilitate learning, healing and deliciousness. In human sexuality, kinkiness is the use of sexual practices, concepts or fantasies that are not conventional. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" (a "kink") in one's sexual behavior, versus "straight" or "vanilla" sexual expression and proclivities. Many of us engage in a range of sexual practices from playful to erotically fetishistic to emotionally cathartic experiencing allowing us to explore with agency (within our control) lived experience-developmental wounds that became sexualized in adulthood. In the 21st century the term "kink", along with expressions like BDSM (Bondage, Dominance-Submission/Sadism - Masochism), Leather and Fetish, go beyond what are considered conventional sexual practices, gender expression and relationship structures as a means of authentically and shamelessly heightening the pleasure and intimacy between sexual partners. Kink is a magnificent way to understand and express our often disguised emotional pain and socially unacceptable desires while safely held in a risk aware culture of consent, clear boundaries, and compassion.